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今天是我的生日（确切的说是刚刚过去的昨天），谢谢蒋哥、家年、虎城、家齐，还有代表全班PPMM的郑婧同学来给我过生日。其实，上几天自己阳历生日的时候，家齐记得，都已经让我足足的感动了一下，都不知道家齐怎么知道的... 想想明年这个时候家齐和郑婧就在美国读书了，我会挺想你们的。也真心希望家年和蒋哥明年顺利毕业，找到自己理想的工作，也祝虎城学业和股市双丰收。对了，还要祝郑婧mm早日找到自己的如意郎君，家齐发篇ISCA先热热身。

今天丹丹足足给了我个surprise，本想生日简简单单和丹丹吃个饭，出去看看电影就算了。没想到吃完饭，丹丹要回学校，先是一起取了送我的生日礼物，非常的喜欢，然后回宿舍看电视。再后来，直到家齐和郑婧出现，我才恍然大悟。所以，一定要好好谢谢丹丹，谢谢丹丹的生日蛋糕（其实，我从小到大吃过的第一个生日蛋糕，也是丹丹送给我的），也谢谢她的“蓄谋已久”，一直把我蒙在鼓里。居然，蒋哥也提前知道，都不告诉我，哈哈，蒋哥，看我以后怎么...。

自己很开心，也祝身边所有的人每天都开心、快乐！

This article is forwarded by Dandan. The original version is shared by Shanshan (Liduo's wife, they are very nice). A very good article. I very like this sentence:

THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE
RIGHT PERSON;  IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU
FOUND.

DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?
During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common
question. She said, 'How do I know if I married the
right person?'
I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to
her so I said,  'It depends. Is that your husband?'
In all seriousness, she answered 'How do you know?'
Let me answer this question because the chances are
good that it's weighing on your mind.
Here's the answer:
EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you
fell in love with your spouse / partner . You
anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked
their idiosyncrasies (unconventional behaviour/habit).
Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact,
it was a completely natural and spontaneous
experience.  You didn't have to DO anything. That's
why it's called 'falling' in love... Because it's
happening TO YOU .
People in love sometimes say, "I was swept off my
feet."  Think about the imagery of that expression. It
implies that you were just standing there; doing
nothing, and then something came along and happened TO
YOU .
Falling in love is easy . It's a passive and
spontaneous experience.  BUT after a few years of
marriage, the euphoria & excitement of love fades.
It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship . Slowly
but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come
at all), touch is not always welcome (when it
happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of
being cute, drive you nuts.
The symptoms of this stage vary with every
relationship, but if you think about your marriage,
you will notice a dramatic difference between the
initial stage when you were in love and a much duller
or even angry subsequent stage.
At this point, you and/or your spouse might start
asking,  "Did I marry the right person?"
And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of
the love you once had, you may begin to desire that
experience with someone else.
This is when marriages break down . People blame their
spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their
marriage for fulfilment.
Extramarital fulfilment comes in all shapes and sizes.
Infidelity is the most obvious.  But sometimes people
turn to work, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or
abusive substances.
But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside
your marriage. It lies within it.
I'm not saying that you can't fall in love with
someone else.  You could.
And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the
same situation a few years later....  Because:
THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE
RIGHT PERSON;  IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU
FOUND.
SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous
experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't
"find" LASTING love. You have to "MAKE" it day in and
day out. That's why we have the expression "The Labour
of Love," because it takes time, effort, and energy .
And most importantly, it takes WISDOM . You have to
know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.
Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There
are specific things you can do (with or without your
spouse) to succeed with your marriage. Just as there
are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity),
there are also laws for relationships.
Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you
physically stronger, certain habits in your
relationship WILL make your marriage
stronger.  It's a direct cause and effect. If you know
and apply the laws, the results are predictable... you
can BE IN LOVE with your spouse forever....
This is possible based on YOUR WILLINGNESS to look
beyond the irritating habits of your spouse and many
dull and boring moments when your best activity is to
munch chips while watching an old rerun on tv, or
tucking your kids to sleep, or listening to a joke
that's been said a thousand times...
Love in marriage is indeed a "decision"... Not just a
feeling.
Remember this always :
God determines who walks into your life. It is up to
you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay,
and who you refuse to let go.

-----任雪晨

这世界很复杂 混淆我想说的话 我不懂 太复杂的文法 什么样的礼物
能够永远记得住 让幸福别走得太仓促 云和天蝶和花 从来不需要说话
断不了依然日夜牵挂 唱情歌说情话 只想让你听清楚 我爱你是唯一的倾诉
写一首简单的歌 让你的心情快乐 爱情就像一条河 难免会碰到波折
这一首简单的歌 并没有什么独特 好像我那么的平凡却又深刻

我一直在思考 让你了解我的好 却忘了常常对你微笑 失去的忘记的
我会尽力去弥补 你是我最珍贵的财富 写一首简单的歌 让你的心情快乐
爱情就像一条河 难免会碰到波折 这一首简单的歌 并没有什么独特
好像我那么的平凡却又深刻

写一首简单的歌 让你的心情快乐 爱情就像一条河 难免会碰到波折
这一首简单的歌 并没有什么独特 好像我 那么的平凡却又深刻

今天看了学生节晚会，让我很感动的一句话：
     朋友是你需要一生去呵护的！

觉得师兄师姐几句话很好：

对于生活：
     快乐着你的快乐、悲伤着你的悲伤

对于工作：
     做自己喜欢做的事情、做能够发挥自己激情的事情；
     忘记自己清华的毕业的，否则会输的很惨！

对于择偶：
     秉承的原则：不求最好，只求最合适
     合适的时间遇到合适的人（这句是徐大牛说的，我很赞同）